FIRST-PERSON: When God takes you on a detour

by Van Kicklighter, posted Wednesday, March 14, 2018 (4 months ago)

SPRINGFIELD, Ill. (BP) -- I learned to drive when finding your way around still involved maps -- ones printed on paper with different size dots to represent populations and different width lines for what kind of road it was. To get from place to place, you would locate where you were and where you wanted to go and, most of the time, map out the shortest distance.

This worked well until you came to one of those big orange triangular "Detour" signs. Typically, you would be directed off the road with a sign or two and, at times, left to your own resources to find your way back to the main road as soon as possible to continue your journey.

Personally, my life recently took a detour (with a cancer diagnosis). Not only am I now on a different road, I am headed for a new and different destination. To be honest, my wife Robin and I aren't sure we know what it will be. This detour is not simply a short-lived excursion, it is a brand-new road.

Sometimes God takes our lives on a detour, at least from the plans we have laid out and from the destinations we were headed toward. And trying to get back to the old road, the former route, is to miss what God wants to do in our life. As one author puts it, the detour has become the new road.

What do we make of this? Is God playing a mean trick on us, or has He changed His mind about His purpose for our lives? As I have thought and prayed about this, I have come to a new understanding and appreciation for what God might be doing when He interrupts our personal road maps and seeks to take us to a new destination.

Even a cursory reading of the Bible reveals that many of God's choicest servants, men and women, experienced some incredible detours. Consider Abraham, who was told to leave his homeland and go to a place God would show him (eventually). Ruth, a young bride-turned-widow, also journeyed to a foreign land. Peter, Andrew, James and John left the family fishing business to wander with Jesus, and the apostle Paul detoured from persecuting the church to being the planter of churches.

These are just a few of dozens of examples. Let me suggest a few possibilities for what God might be up to in the detours of life:

You detoured when you trusted Jesus.

The truth of the Gospel is that we were enemies of God until He intervened and offered us salvation through Jesus. In our old life, we charted our own destination, and it was leading us to separation from God. Our repentance -- doing an "about face" -- represents the first and most important detour as a disciple of Jesus.

Your detour may last for many years before you see the benefit.

Joseph was enjoying his time as the favorite son of a wealthy father. Then his brothers threw him in a pit and left him for dead. He was sold into slavery to a foreign king and later thrown in prison, even though he did nothing wrong. Quite a life-changing detour! But after decades and several more detours, Joseph's position in the foreign land was used by God to meet the need of his people in a time of severe famine. You may not see the benefit or the blessing of a detour for many years to come.

Your detour may have a Kingdom impact.

Saul, who became the apostle Paul, may have had the most dramatic detour recorded. From hunting down and wanting to kill followers of Jesus, he became the greatest missionary ever, planting churches all over the known world. Only in heaven will we know how many people came to be followers of Jesus because of Paul's ministry. This was certainly not his original life's ambition. Yet you and I have heard the Gospel because of Paul's dramatic detour.

Your detour may be for the blessing of others.

Consider Abram. He was a herder of livestock. God told him to leave home and set out for a place that God would show him. Not only would God bless Abram, whom he renamed Abraham, but "all the peoples on earth will be blessed through you" (Genesis 12:3). Abram's detour resulted in all the nations of the earth being blessed.

So, don't get in a hurry to get back to your original route. Allow what seems like a detour to be the new route of obedience for your life.

Van Kicklighter is associate director for the Illinois Baptist State Association's church planting team. This column first appeared at the Illinois Baptist newsjournal (illinoisbaptist.org).
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